Dressing for the Skin We’re In: Honoring Ourselves in Every Moment
Lately, I’ve noticed a recurring theme with the incredible women I’ve been working with. Many share a sentiment that feels so familiar: “I’ll wear that when I lose a few pounds,” or “I’ll book the photoshoot once I feel ready.”
I get it. Truly, I do. It’s easy to feel like the best version of ourselves is just around the corner, waiting for some milestone we haven’t reached yet. But here’s the truth: we only have now.
Waiting to embrace your style or show up as your full self doesn’t just delay the outfit or the photoshoot - it delays your joy, your confidence, and the energy you radiate into the world.
Style Is a Mirror, And a Tool
As a stylist, I often hear people say they want to feel confident before they invest in their wardrobe or wear that bold outfit. But here’s the thing I have come to know: confidence doesn’t always come first, it’s something we create.
The clothes we wear are tools, not trophies. They’re not rewards for reaching a goal weight or fitting into a certain size. They’re an opportunity to honor who we are in this moment while inspiring us to step into our next chapter.
When we dress for the skin we’re in, we shift the focus from what we lack to what we already have. It’s a mindset that celebrates progress while embracing the present, a balance that motivates us to keep going, not because we’re “not enough” but because we are.
The Collective Power of Confidence
What’s struck me most about this work, and about being a woman really, is how universal our feelings of doubt can be. It’s not just about how we look; it’s about how we feel walking into a room, how we show up in our work, and how we carry ourselves through life.
I was recently inspired by the women in The Hollywood Reporter’s Actresses Roundtable. These are artists at the height of their craft, women who have earned critical acclaim and who we see as pillars of strength and creativity. And yet, they spoke so openly about the insecurities they feel in their careers, their art, and their lives.
That honesty reminded me of something I see in my own work: we are so much more alike than we are different. When we allow ourselves to be vulnerable, we connect with each other on a deeper level. And it’s through that connection that we begin to lift one another up.
Tonight, as we watch the Golden Globes, let’s appreciate the artistry, collaboration, and energy that goes into making each person feel confident and celebrated. Because whether you’re walking a red carpet or just stepping into your day, we all deserve to feel seen, supported, and empowered to show up as our full selves.
Why Support Matters
Feeling good in your clothes isn’t always easy. It takes time, experimentation, and sometimes, a little help. That’s where having support can make all the difference.
As a stylist, my job isn’t just to curate outfits or find the perfect dress. It’s to help you see yourself with fresh eyes, to show you how beautiful you already are, and to give you the tools to express that confidently.
Because the truth is, we don’t dress for some far-off version of ourselves. We dress for who we are today, honoring this moment while building a wardrobe that makes us feel seen, celebrated, and empowered.
A Reminder for All of Us
To every woman reading this: you are enough. Right here, right now. Style isn’t about waiting for a better version of you, it’s about celebrating the incredible person you already are.
And if you’re ready to take that first step, I’d love to help you discover a style that feels like you. Because when we show up as our full selves, we inspire others to do the same. And that’s how confidence becomes contagious.
Linking Back
If you’d like to learn more about body positivity and styling, check out my earlier post. And if you’re curious about working together, let’s connect! I’d love to support you in feeling your absolute best.
